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3rd Annual Boys To Men New England ROPAW - August 2010

Boys to Men New England hosted its 3rd annual regional Rite of Passage Adventure Weekend (ROPAW) in Dummerston, VT with boys from Canada, New York, Massachusetts, Vermont, Connecticut, New Jersey, DC and Florida. We had staff from all of those areas except Florida. In addition, we had staff from North Carolina, Georgia, Minnesota and California. It was the 2nd MEGA-ROPAW in the region and the largest event ever in the 14 year history of Boys to Men. We initiated 34 boys with a brilliant staff container of 87, which included 60 men and 27 Journeymen (boys on their path from boyhood to manhood). This year we were also blessed and nurtured by a dedicated Production/Kitchen Team of 10 men, for a total weekend container of 131. This was up from a combined total of 97 Boys and staff in 2009. The weather was perfect and the 34 boys showed great courage in sharing their truths. The safe space the boys needed was created by the men and JMen on staff by modeling what it was like by taking off their masks and sharing their truths. Boys learned that they could trust men and learned what it was like to be open and honest. They also learned about integrity and accountability, two cornerstones of the Boys to Men program. They took a look at what was not working in their lives and what kind of men they wanted to be. In addition to challenging the boys we also made time for play. There was some amazing drumming sessions as well. On Saturday night there was a Feast to honor these boys and then a ceremony to celebrate them as new Journeymen.

We are in awe of these boys and what they bring to these weekends. They challenge themselves to find new ways to step into and live from their truth. In the process, all of the men and JMen gain a greater clarity of their own purpose and mission. The transformations experienced over a period of less than 48 hours are nothing short of a miracle.

Together, we are indeed changing the world.

Boys to Men is one of the best options available to adolecent and young teen boys.
-Noah, age 15
Read all that Noah has to say!

Imagine

When we invest in our future and give every boy and girl the support they need to grow into compassionate, loving, creative, energetic women and men.

When we give every boy and girl a safe, nurturing environment where they know they are loved, listened to, valued and feel important.

When we give every girl and boy a safe, meaningful rite of passage into manhood/womanhood where they can:

  • Discover their greatness.
  • Make conscious decisions about what kind of woman/man they want to be.
  • Understand, respect, and appreciate themselves as young men/women.
When we give every boy and girl a community of compassionate, caring, supporting guides, role models and mentors.

When we give every boy and girl the support they need to find and achieve their dreams.

Imagine what kind of world that will be?



The Vision

Our vision is Communities of Men
all over New England
who Teach, Support,
Mentor, and Encourage Boys
To become Compassionate,
Accountable men.

The Mission

To raise awareness about the challenges facing
boys, and to motivate caring adult males to provide
boys with mentoring and modeling
so that they learn integrity, accountability,
compassion and respect
and guide them
toward healthy manhood.

Who are we

The Boys to Men New England Mentoring Network guides boys 12-17 years of age through their passage to manhood. We provide boys with mentoring and modeling so that they learn integrity, accountability, compassion and respect. We help boys develop responsibility and guide them toward healthy manhood.

Why there's a need

The challenge for boys in today's world is greater than ever. Boys have too few positive role models and far too many negative examples of masculinity. Gangs, drugs, Internet pornography, and teen pregnancies compound this critical time in a young man's life. Too many good boys get caught up in a path they may not have chosen if they had a mentor to help see options, weigh consequences and make positive choices.

  • Divorce rates are over 50%
  • Over 40% of families are single parent with mom as head of the household.
  • Boys are seeking honor and respect through threats and acts of violence. When a young man takes a risk, he is begging for attention.
  • Use of alcohol, tobacco and other drugs continues to be a rite of passage for many boys.
  • Boys suffer from sadness, fear and anger in a culture of cruelty and are taught not to express their feelings
  • Fewer healthy mature men are taking on a mentoring role to guide and nurture boys

What we are about

We...

  • Build self esteem
  • Provide a unique and safe place where boys can interact with committed, conscientious men
  • Encourage boys to be men of honor. To seek and speak the truth.
  • Help boys discover and develop their individual strengths, talents and gifts.
  • Mentor positive male role models
  • Challenge boys to live lives of responsible action and make a meaningful impact in the world.
  • Teach boys how to resolve conflicts and ask for forgiveness.
  • Support boy's dreams to find a personal mission
  • Praise the greatness in each boy.
  • Give our boys hope, confidence and courage.

Our program addresses core issues facing adolescent boys.

Boys act out for a reason. Once that reason is revealed, they are better able to make conscious choices.

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